Amanojack on the Your-Japan Blog Network

People have different sides of themselves they show at different times in different situations and when different people are around. They usually don’t even notice this. You probably don’t even notice.

The experience of consciousness is somewhat like a committee of different factions. Each faction is one you’ve created to respond to different circumstances you’ve encountered in your life. Each one has - in a sense - it’s own personality. Do you notice them now? If you’re incredulous at these statements, your Mr. Incredulous is behind the wheel right now. Usually the driver of your consciousness changes fairly often. Maybe later Mr. “Ah, I get it” or Mr. “This is fascinating” will make an brief appearance in representing your conscious mind - the “you” of the moment.

I posit that multiple personality disorder is just an extreme magnification of this, suffered by people who had such serious trauma that they created personalities that kept control for a long time. Sort of like how a dictator can seize power when a nation is in crisis.

This may seem abstract, but rest assured the application directly leads to hot action with hot chicks.

The reason is, each of these personalities is “you,” but each of them is different. If given free rein, each would negotiate a contract in a different way. Each would react in a different way to things. In particular, each would have a different attitude about having casual sex, about who you would have sex with, etc.

I think intuitively people understand this concept already, because we all know people - somewhat mysteriously - react in quite different ways to the same thing at different times.

To apply this to seducing women, you gotta demystify it and be able to see the actual mechanism behind it. So now you see the trick, right?

Find a side of her that CAN be persuaded to make out and have sex with you, and make sure that side leads the committee of her consciousness and keeps the other factions in line and without a voice.

A lot of guys have great experience with doing the exact opposite: they find great ways to access all the rigid and prudish sides of a girl and try to seduce those factions. But of course it never works.

For example, if you know nothing about pickup and so you are talking politics to her, you are talking to Ms. Political, you’re going to run into nothing but roadblocks. Some minority factions may be getting excited and horny by your attractiveness, but you keep letting Ms. Political beat them down with her righteous indignation.

I don’t care if you’re talking to the most die-hard feminist. She still has hundreds of these little factions inside of her, including the: Ms. “I don’t care who, I just want a man inside me right now!!” and the Ms. “Oooh I wanna kiss him!”. Sure, these factions will be suppressed quickly with girls like that, but they can also be brought out and encouraged. And some are so powerful that if just given the reins of power for a few seconds they can make her horny enough to “cancel elections” and stay in power for a while longer (like, 20 minutes or so). 20 minutes is plenty of time to score a home run.

Which faction is in power in her mind is mostly based, at first, on what you talk about. That is why you must control the conversation if you want to have high success rates. And you must steer it away from topics that give power to factions that are not allied with your agenda, and toward ones that are.

That’s the object. Every girl has at the very least 2-3 sides of her that WILL take the next step toward sex with you, and 200-300 sides that won’t.

So this is a largely a game of AVOIDANCE. Avoid activating or fueling those 200-300 factions within her that would refuse the next step. Often that is enough - for foolsmate easy lays that is enough. And that becomes second nature to a seductionist - simply never talk about academics, never annoy her, never be weird - or you’ll bring Ms. Mature, Ms. Indignation or Ms. “Huh?! Weird!” to power, and they tend to be hard to get to step down.

For the tough cookies you have to actively engage and encourage those 2-3 sides that are friendly to your goals. But it’s not a brute force thing, it takes diplomacy because if you are impolite about it that will activate her Ms. Indignation. If you talk directly about sex with her, you run high risk of bringing out Ms. “I’m not that kind of girl!!!” There are workarounds sometimes, though.

The point is, looking at things this way will make thinking about seduction easier, and your goals clearer. It will also make you less incredulous when she suddenly decides she DOES want your cock, so that you don’t miss the 2-second window of opportunity to turn her Ms. Horny from a momentary figurehead to a ruthless czar on an extended reign of terror!

Amanojack

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