Factors leading to success:
-initial interest because she wanted to learn English
-selection of good venue to take her to
-touching her strongly on the arm immediately upon meeting at the station
-not letting her steal the frame (not making it an "English lesson")
-demonstrating personality and passion through stories
-getting her to elicit the racy/romantic parts of the story from me, rather than pushing them on her
-overcoming last-minute-resistance to sex by persisting relentlessly with a wide variety of methods

So I met this hairstylist girl with really big cute eyes (kinda like an anime girl) at one of those international parties in Shibuya. As is pretty common in Japan, she was interested from the outset, but only because she wanted me to teach her English.

At the party I just got her number and email uneventfully and we set up the next meet by email with no problem, with her saying "please teach me English!" I never directly replied to that line, because I didn’t want to box myself into the role of her English teacher. I also didn’t refuse to teach her English, because that might’ve lowered the chances of her meeting me since that was her motivation for meeting me at that time. Ignoring rather than refusing is a common and powerful technique. In Japan you can use language and cultural misunderstandings to make this easier, so the technique becomes an integral part of your everyday toolbox.

We met at the station and I immediately touched her on the arm strongly when I greeted her, very casually and relaxedly, without looking at my hand, maintaining solid and friendly eye contact. This is something I always do when I meet a chick for an arranged meeting, because it establishes that "that's just the kind of person I am" (so all touching afterward is congruent) and "I am a sexual being" (Japanese guys never do this, but it’s accepted because you are foreign). I took her to my "surefire lay" restaurant/bar near my place (if you don't have a venue like this, find one!) and spoke in easy English at first to satisfy her desire to learn.

We made small talk a bit while she relaxed and got used to my English voice, because I was going to need her to understand the stories I was about to start into.

I never launch into a story myself; I always wait until they ask me one of the key questions that Japanese people invariably ask, and get them to elicit my stories in the course of trying to get that key question answered. Here's how it works in practice:

J-chick: So, why did you come to Japan? (they ALWAYS ask this)
Amanojack: Well, it all started when I was in high school, at the junior prom. (This is bait: Japanese girls have this super-romantic image of high school proms, and press me to talk about it more every time I mention it.)

I go into my favorite attraction/romance/personality/passion story, which produces in her that wide-eyed look like how a dog looks at you when you’re holding its food bowl. This happens 90% of the time I take a girl to this venue and tell the exact same story to every chick, so nothing interesting is happening so far. She’s just feeling this unexpected attraction toward me like I anticipated, and I read the situation well enough to be able to see the first chance I have to go for the kiss. The signs I see are: she holds eye contact for longer, when I pronounce “W” sounds she glances down at my lips, she doesn’t pull away when I get close, and she reciprocates my casual touching.

So I test for the kiss using the earlobe by talking close to her ear and letting my lips brush against it as I talk (while I’m massaging her shoulders from behind), modulating my voice deeper and slower. She doesn't move away at this point so I know it’s time for the kiss. Again, this is all routine, nothing out of the ordinary. After a few short French kisses in the bar, I say "let's go" and start walking to take her home. This part is routine and not worth going into because it's the same as most other lays I've had in Japan.

Where it gets interesting: I get her home and we're making out, but she's putting up MASSIVE resistance to the clothes coming off! OK, this is my specialty - time to pull out all the tools in the Amanojack last-minute-resistance (LMR: resistance put up by a chick who is horny for you but having sex with you is against her better judgment) busting toolbox!

LMR breaker 1: POWER UP!! Already making out, so just make out more, up the momentum, up the energy, up the passion, focus more on kissing her well, change touching escalation patterns, and see how far you get. Really focus on what is so hot about her so you can really get into it like a wild animal swept away by passion. This leads me to the tits, and I have a rule: if I can lick BOTH nipples the lay is in the bag. But this time I only got to lick ONE nipple before she stopped me. Uh-oh, time for...

LMR breaker 2: THE BACKDOOR PATH!! Strangely enough, in Japan generally the ass and anus don't really count as sexual parts, and some girls will let you touch their ass all the way down to her crack, and then if you go the extra inch around back to her pussy she's like "Hey! You tricked me, I didn't think you could reach my pussy from there!" Sure enough, I tried it and got a brief touch of pussy – it felt like warm juicy pudding!! She enjoyed it for a brief second because she was too surprised to stop me, but then she got control of herself, pulled me away and started saying, "Let's just go to sleep." But I ain't havin' that...

LMR breaker 3: THE EARLOBE BLITZ!! Remember this amazing and very useful fact: earlobe stimulation can temporarily but completely remove a woman's will to resist for a few seconds. If you can stimulate her earlobe to the point where she gets shivers in her body, you can suddenly touch her ANYWHERE and she won't resist. It's a power point like no other...except the clitoris! This is Amanojack's earlobe-clit blitz technique, perfected over several years.

You open the resistance window for a few seconds at a time, getting your hand near her pussy the first time, then pulling your hand away as the window closes. Reopen the window a few seconds later with more ear stimulation, put your hand on her panties and rub her pussy through them (or come in through the “backdoor”). Next time the window opens slide your hand in and rub directly. Next two windows rub the clit directly. Once you have a few seconds of good stimulation of the clit, it is usually game over (depends on your skill there, too, so practice your hand skills to perfection on any girls you get the chance with - this alone will increase your success rate!).

This girl is about to explode, but something was keeping her from fucking, even though she was juicing herself and my bed like crazy. Some memory from the past, not wanting to look like a slut, hoping for a romantic relationship instead of a sexual one, or just trying to keep to her word that she wouldn't fuck tonight. She knows she is too horny for her own good, as I found out later, and she is used to using her willpower to keep stuff from happening. Her agenda and my agenda collided, and her agenda was winning in spite of the fact that she was really horny right then.

This was just about the strongest LMR I'd ever seen! She was really horny, but she could get even more horny. There is a point of horniness where resistance becomes simply out of the question because she just wants it so badly. This fact is one of the pillars of seduction. The question is how to tap into her arousal response and get her to melt into a pool of horniness. Time for...

LMR breaker 4: WRESTLING!! A pattern of resistance was building up, making the mood too serious and interfering with her horniness response. I realized that I wasn't going to make anymore progress until that resistance pattern was broken. It was time to try something totally different.

I picked her up and started spinning her around and pretending to attack her like a play monster and bite her neck in between making out and playfully rough-handling her. She liked this a lot, and the playful mood returned. The resistance pattern was broken. I used the monster role-playing as an excuse to strip some clothes off her while growling like a wolf in fun. Finally we were down to just underwear, but then she knew the danger was greater and she put up even more resistance!! All these LMR breakers are things that usually work, but this time didn't. She knew her own horniness response too well and was determined not to give into temptation. So near, yet so far... But I was more determined to tempt her until she just decided, “Well why not, just this once…..” (but it’s not really “just this once” because once the precedent has been set and she has an easy way to vent her sexual desires, it usually becomes a regular thing if you want it to be).

LMR breaker 5: ROLE REVERSAL!! One thing that can often work is to get the chick to pleasure you. She may have an objection to you touching her pussy, but sometimes sucking the dick is OK with her. But once she's done that you're naturally a step closer to sex. J-chicks are of course always curious to see what a gaijin cock looks like, comment that it's big, touch it to see how hard it is, etc. I deliberately pretended to enjoy her touching it more than I actually did, in order to encourage her. It worked, and she started lightly rubbing it while we made out. It gave me more leeway to touch her, and I finally got down to licking the pussy and some slight fingering, which she really liked. I'm thinking, "Aha! This girl likes insertion more than clit!" But just then she realized if she didn't stop me we're gonna definitely end up fucking, and she's still dead set on not fucking tonight.

LMR breaker 6: TAKE AWAY --> VERBAL SEDUCTION!! So I finally did the old take away, saying I was hungry and started eating some chocolates I had with her. She relaxed a bit, and I start talking about how the chocolate tastes so good mixed with her pussy juices that were still on my fingers, now facing slightly away from her, not touching her at all. Her mouth opens a bit, and I get the idea to start painting images of a sexual fantasy in her mind. I ask if she has a fantasy, and she doesn't tell me. She says she wants romance, so I say, "Where is romantic?" She says the beach, so I say something like,

"You mean like when you are lying on your back on the beach, feeling the warm sand on your skin, listening to the rhythm of the waves?" I start modulating my voice like I did before to get the wide-eyed captivated look like she gave me at the restaurant. I describe the physical sensations of being on the beach in a tropical paradise. And then I mention "the man" who happens to be there and how nice it feels as his body rubs up against hers, sliding up and down on her in the same rhythm as the waves as they slide up and down the shore. Yes, I’m milking it for all it's worth, adding as much sensual and quasi-sexual content as I can. You’d think the girl would go, “Hey, what are you trying here,” but once they are captivated by the story they just can't stop listening. You can push on with impunity. By the way, it’s not necessary to describe actual sex, because the girl will fill in the blanks in her imagination better than you ever could with your own words. Just hint at it, or describe the kissing in detail.

This finally brings on another round of making out as I'm describing the fantasy more and more, but we run out of communication ability as her English and my Japanese ability are stretched to their limits, and the fantasy sort of stalls.

LMR breaker 6: PORNO VIDEO!!! I can see I have something here with the sexual talk, so I try one last thing before giving up. This is radical, reserved for just such an occasion. I do another take away and ask if she wants to watch a video.

At this point she is insisting that "we will have sex next time, so you should just give up tonight,” which sounds like a good argument, but I know from experience that it is better to seal the deal than be sorry later when she bails before the next meet. So she is happy with my idea of watching a video and asks what videos I have. Of course all I have are pornos! And since they don't have uncensored porn in Japan except in Shinjuku, I pull out my uncensored videos I got there and tell her this is her chance to see uncensored stuff for the first time (I'm taking a risk here being so brash, just because this is a last-ditch effort). She says it's going to be too much for her, too hardcore. But she can’t help but watch it, just out of curiosity, like a moth attracted to a light bulb.

I put on the video and it's really full on, closeup hardcore stuff (Japanese video), which she finds pretty disturbing but cannot take her eyes off of it, just out of shock. Finally she starts gushing about all the stuff they are doing on the screen, and she just gets all jellylike and we start making out with renewed passion, finally no resistance -- she is hopelessly horny now, and we fuck straight out, some of the best sex I've ever had. She has a great body and really soft pussy that seems to be meant for my cock! She continues to be a great lay to this day, because she's always so darn horny!

Lesson learned: persist, persist, persist! But NOT with the same techniques - keep trying different things until something works. I hope this report opened some people's eyes to the vast array of tools out there for overcoming that last-minute-resistance you tend to encounter right before sex. With this toolkit and the ability to be passionate and flexible, maintaining momentum and managing her mental state, LMR can pretty much always be overcome.

By the way, the total time from getting her back to my apartment to finally getting the lay was less than 2 hours, just to give you an idea of how long I spent with each LMR breaker. Most LMR will be overcome just by having enough passion and kissing skill that she gets swept away by the momentum of the moment, plus knowing how to escalate kino to the breasts, down to the ass and pussy, and how and when to backup and push forward again. This is an atypical example of mega-LMR as far as J-chicks go, but it taught me a lot, so I thought others might get something from it, too.

Side note: Some might question the morality of tempting a girl to do something when she is trying not to give into that temptation. If you feel this is somewhat shady, that's good because it means you’re not a ruffian who just wants to take advantage of people, but careful consideration will reveal the truth of the matter. You should seriously consider the moral issues here. I have, and I have come to the conclusion that it is not wrong to place heavy temptation on a girl. What she in the end decides is her own responsibility. You do not force her to do anything she doesn’t want to do.

The reason such situations come about is that the girl is looking for romance. She wants sex, too, but she is afraid she won’t get any romance if she gives up the sex too quickly. (If she doesn’t want sex and is not horny, her resistance is *NOT* LMR; it is just plain no good and you have to go back a few steps and try to build enough attraction to make her interested in you.) You might want just sex or maybe you want to make her your girlfriend or even wife. In any of these cases your goal is the same: to have good sex with her as soon as possible. This is and always will be the surest path to make a girl fall in love with you if that's what you want. (If you don't want her to fall in love don't give off romantic vibes, just keep it passionate and sexual – kinda obvious really.)

Now if she is determined to make you her boyfriend and you are determined to make her your sex friend, you have a clash of agendas. This is a very common one. She’s making her best efforts to ensure you don’t have sex too fast, even if you both really want to. You’re making your best efforts to ensure you have sex as soon as possible. Hence major friction is to be expected.

However, there is no moral issue with pursuing your agenda. Your job is to show how great it can be just to enjoy good sex. Her job is to show you how great it can be to be boyfriend and girlfriend. If you get sucked into her frame and end up going out with her against your better judgment, no one can blame her. By the same token, if she gets sucked into your sexual frame and ends up having wild sex with you against her better judgment, no one can blame you. You goal is to give her so much pleasure that she changes her mind about needing to be in a relationship, because before she never knew sex alone could be THIS GOOD. So do her well!!

There is nothing wrong with pursuing matters in this fashion, but you need to get this fact clear in your mind BEFORE you encounter this situation. You cannot have even the slightest uncertainty about what you are doing and WHY you are doing it and why it is a good thing to be doing and NOT EVIL. Otherwise you’ll lack the intensity of purpose to follow through against heavy resistance and the chick will see this and not follow your lead. She will not trust you if you have these last minute moral qualms, and then you will get nowhere. Hopefully this article has helped you think this through for yourself so you know where you stand.

As always, questions and comments are welcome and will be responded to. If you have any issue with a particular girl or just in general, by all means post a comment in reply to this article or send me a mail. With your permission I’ll leave off your name if I choose to post your mail on the blog.

Happy hunting!

Amanojack