I'd been holed up in my office working for all of Golden Week and a few weeks before. Barely tasted the light of day. I went to a soba place for some dinner out instead of ordering in pizza for a change. On the way back I stop at the convenience store for some ice cream. Why not treat myself, I thought. Before reading this, please recall this scene from the movie Ferris Bueler's Day Off (Charlie Sheen)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oD4tYW-qtks
(the middle part where they make out is missing)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LaW_exbMbvY

I realized recently I've forgotten to include sexual state in my pickups, so I was determined to try using it on some random girl. Very first person I talked to: Girl in bright green wearing headphones. A cold approach at 1am in the convenience store.

She was a really hot student at a fashion design school with thigh-high stalkings, high heals and hot pants, 20yo, also very big tits for a J-girl, no English, no experience with or special interest in gaijin, talked for 20-30 min. in and then outside the store. Only thing I was conscious of was showing Charlie Sheen-style sexual state as much as possible and continual but gradual physical escalation.

Just everyday talk - lame stuff like just talking about what music she likes, etc. (while imagining my cock in her mouth!). Massage outside store against the traffic railing. Extract to house with pretense of moving my bike out of the coming rain. Touched pussy and came in her mouth two hours later. We've since had sex and hung out a fair amount 'cuase she's a fun and spirited chick. Post-op interview: Why'd you do it? "I felt 'something' when you first spoke to me."

A beautiful thing about this is that nothing I said mattered, and I knew nothing I said mattered. That is why I haven't included details of the conversation - there was no verbal technique, just chatting. It was only how I said it, and how I said it was affected only by my expression of my sexual passion for her, like Charlie Sheen in the clips above. This meant I only had to focus on one thing: the end result. Once you've corrected your mistakes and released your brakes, it's this easy because all you have to focus on is your own sexual state and the fantasy that propels it. Don't be afraid of fantasizing as long as you are immediately interacting with the girl and constantly escalating physically toward that goal. Make it as hot and juicy as possible while you're at it, because what you imagine strongly enough must become reality. (Refer to the excellent DVD called "The Secret" for details on this principle - not a new concept, but this DVD explains it so thoroughly that it's required watching for everyone interested in achieving anything in their life.)



I rarely post my own "lay reports," simply because most of the noteworthy ones happened a long time ago, and now it's just the same old automatic processes working as usual. But this one I wanted to post because too many guys are too impressed with instant shit like this, when really this is your bread and butter, your default.

This is not impressive, it simply is a form of "fool's mate" that most guys aren't aware is possible. But as gaijin in Japan, the reality is most of us have enough attraction to pull off foolsmate pickups like this every day of the week. In a sense, many gaijin in Japan can enjoy a "Charisma Man" effect - everyone knows this, but if it were so easy we'd see gaijin on the street with the hottest chicks all the time, when in reality the chicks with gaijin on the street are usually mediocre or even ugly. In 6 years I've seen only 3 gaijin walking around with girls I would consider "very hot" and I think one of them was a famous guy, and one of the girls may have been an escort.



The big picture I want to paint here is that these are the basics. When you do your all the advanced stuff you may have learned from other guys or wherever, many of which does serve valuable purposes in the field, be sure not to forget the fundamentals: the visualization and horny state that sexualize everything else. You gotta walk before you can run. You gotta know how easy it can be before you start thinking about ways to get around hard obstacles. I've personally found that in Japan, every one of my 9+ level girls have been these kind of fast foolsmate lays where I was just so inspired by their hotness that my own sexual state was burning white-hot, my eye contact like a laser, my voice perfectly smooth, slow, and deep, and I had no fear or hesitation because I was so lustful for them. I would be constantly visualizing the makeout and the sex before it happened, eating my dessert first, as it were.

When in doubt, get horny and visualize your cock in her mouth and eat dessert first!