The basic plan is always the same: get to sex ASAP. Recent posts elucidate great ways to go about this.
More important is WHY. Why approach? Why "get" a girl? The answer for me is, "to set up the basis for giving her amazing pleasure and maybe later a fantastic relationship." To do this, in present society around the world, it's generally required that men get to sex with the girl ASAP first, just to get it out of the way so they don't fall into friend zone or worse.
That's why the blog was formerly titled "Get Girls." For me it's never been about just "getting girls," it's about what I do after I get them. However, the ways and means of getting girls are the focus of the blog, and I leave readers to decide what they want to do after that. I trusted that guys would hold to the maxim of "always leaving them better than you found them."
Given that the title could confuse people and attract guys who just want to "get girls" and use them, leaving them worse off than before, I've decided to change the blog title to something more fitting. Guys that just want to get trophy girls or get their dick wet first and foremost will find little of real use here, because the methods espoused will ensure that your agenda sabotages you along the way, at least often enough that you'll turn to more calculating pickup methods propounded elsewhere on the net.
It turns out that WHY you are interested in "getting girls" is closely connected with what kind of girls you'll end up with, and with what rate of success.
The most basic element of success with women and relationships is the desire and commitment to give happiness, pleasure and love and knowing that you have a lot to give. Once you've had sex with a girl it's not usually hard to keep her for as long as you want (as long as you treated her well, YOU clearly enjoyed it and the sex was GOOD). So the issue of giving love and happiness, while of the utmost importance later on, ironically have little effect on whether you actually hook up with a given girl and get into a position to give her those gifts.
So we are left with one critical element for making the hook-up happen - before you even approach her or get hot for her or anything. That element is simply your desire, will and commitment to giving her the time of her life in bed.
This is the gift you bring to her. You are not "getting" her pussy; she is "getting" the benefit of being with you. In terms of sex, SHE is the primary beneficiary of the interaction, and you are the secondary. Who knows if she is a good lay or not? But you know that YOU are a fantastic lay (if you really are). She might not know this right away, because people are not very intuitive, but the point is you have no interest or intention of taking anything from her, only of giving. Plus you know what you're offering is amazingly good.
This conviction - and the confidence it gives you - is what underpins the whole pickup and indeed the whole lifestyle of getting sexual with many fine women. If you are out there to give, and you know your gifts are truly awesome, your success is literally unlimited.
I started off this way, which is why I progressed very fast when I found the right methods, and how I knew to avoid the bad methods. It's all too easy to think you are in this for all the hot pussy and T&A you get to see, touch and taste, the jealous stares, the personal validation. Especially the first one is very good to enjoy, but it is critical to realize that NONE of these elements can come anywhere near your desire to pleasure the girl! The moment it does, the quality of the lifestyle takes a massive hit. It creeps up on you. People just naturally get lazy. This lifestyle is not for the lazy. It's for those who are committed to making women happy, through sex and whatever other way they want to. Those that follow this will become very happy themselves, because you get back what you put in. Those that don't follow this will either burn out very fast and hurt people along the way or they'll burn out slow and live a meaningless and tragic life in this regard. Learn to have great sex, commit to it, and you'll have the strength to press through any kind of interaction.
