After 6 years in this lifestyle, it's not often that I come up with a highly effective new method that I'll actually use myself. But this summer I found just such a technique:

The sexual state phone call.

The idea of sexual state has been around for as long as men have been horny, and has been formulated as a seduction tool by Gunwitch and others in the seduction community. I've created an expanded interpretation of sexual state, partially outlined here.

The main difficulty with using sexual state is most guys can't turn it on like a switch. They'll flow into and out of states in random and haphazard ways, with results to match. And when they are in great sexual state, they might well be home in their pajamas and in no condition to go out and utilize it.

When every thought of hot women makes you boil over with lust, there is another option. You can just pick up the phone and start dialing.

Dial one of your regulars up first to warm up the voice. Try to persuade her to do something unusual for you by talking in super-sexual tone and never letting up no matter what she says. Stretch all the syllables out in as deep and soothing a voice as you can manage. Let your sexual state show through all the while. Of course always stay positive and confident, which means no verbalizing this directly either.

Once you get to calling random girls you've been trying to get to meet you, they'll object in all kinds of ways. They'll try to talk about something else and you'll continue with the super-sensual voice. They may ask what's up with the voice. They may ask if you are horny, or if you are "tired" or whatever they can think of. Ignore it all. Simply don't respond to anything that isn't related to what you want.

And what do you want? Her at your house, now! Let yourself go crazy with the voice, little by little escalating it. Basically you are doing the sexual state pickup, but on the phone. And why on earth not?! Men pay $4.95/minute for 1-900 numbers where women of unknown appearance will talk dirty to them, and men are much less stimulated by voice than women are. You can get a girl very hot and bothered over the phone, even if you've never met, or even if she wrote you off as a lamer in the past. Suddenly you're this guy, up in her ear giving her these hot feelings.

You can really pull some coups with this. By that I mean, if you've been doing pickup for a while you know that girls tend to fall by the wayside if you can't get them to meet you within a few weeks after picking them up. These girls are very hard to turn around, because the pattern is so set. They are "always" busy, even if you invite them out every week for a year. It's rare to get a turn-around out of one of these girls. But this phone technique can do that.

You might dial up some random girl that has nearly forgotten about you. She may be asleep and in a daze because your call woke her. She may be watching TV with her cat. She may be sitting around being lazy. In any of those cases, when the very first words you say are painted with that luscious, optimistic, gentle-yet-powerful sexual voice, she will within a matter of 20-30 seconds have her own state begin to alter. Within a few minutes she could be as horny as you, and you could be wrestling with her to comply with your demand that she come here right this instant.

Wrestling with a girl is right where you want to be. This is a good thing. If it's really totally out of the question, she won't SAY so, she will just refuse to participate in the escalation at all. That's why you start with regular conversation - in a deeply sexual tone - and wait for some indicator that the feeling is seeping into her. She might just soften up a bit. If she was asleep she may do this nearly instantly, since her mental state is highly fluid upon waking and she has trouble judging fantasy from reality. Once she gives any indicator, you can ramp it up with more sexual tone, demand things, say you want to see her, and optionally go into a story or something to build her horniness by making her imagine things.

Always remember to be constantly imagining what you want to happen (her there with you, naked and doing whatever it is you most want). Use whatever imagery works for you as representing the ideal result, whether that be your cock in her mouth, your two naked bodies sliding against each other, her face writhing with pleasure, you making out with her, etc.

Demand her to come now. Most of the time she will simply be unable to comply, but you want to push the boundaries. But take note that you do not even acknowledge her frame. If she has work, don't to tell her to skip. Definitely don't argue why she should skip. Just keep telling her to come and that you want to see her right now. If she's sleeping, don't tell her why she doesn't need the sleep, just keep pushing on the hot button of what you want, keep tempting her with your voice, until you get her going as far as possible. If she even thinks for a second about skipping work to see you, you've accomplished something major. Next time you call, you can build on that.

I find with these sexual state phone calls I can get girls to come from remote locations in Japan just to see me. They just eventually crack that way, after 3-4 calls like that.

Do, of course, end the call first and on a high note (common sense), provided you can't get her to come right away. Try to get her to comply to something. Get her to agree to come meet you. Then get her to agree to a day or timeframe when she will come.

The great thing here is that instead of the flaking dynamic with which more people familiar - where the more you try to get her to meet, the more things stale out - with this method the more you try to get her to meet the more things heat up.

I'd also recommend not discussing actual sexual stuff, because it will take too long from that time to the time you meet and the immediate lust will have worn off by then and she'll often feel boxed in for having seemingly promised sexual stuff would happen, but not at that moment being horny (as she's on her way there). That is a very uncomfortable position for her to be in, as I think any woman would tell you, and she will not want to comply with anything at that point.

Just let it be that she is coming to meet you, and that is that. The rest is implied only with your tone of voice.

Try it out on a girl you aren't that into and see what happens. Even if you have to pretend, remember that acting is just a way to steal the frame from yourself. That practice will help you maintain the frame when talking to her and getting her to comply with your demands to come over.

Using this only a few times (calling multiple girls each time in series), I've gotten at least 12 girls I thought were long-gone to commit to meeting me (many living very far away), and so far 3 of these have led to lays that I had ppreviously written off as slim-to-none chance of success. Give it a try!